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Sounds to me like you're blaming women for the way women are made.If that is what you are doing, then Laurue, we are disappointed and you are so wrong. You are comparing giving sex to a husband is like doing laundry and preparing food!?!Women often come to bed or craving sex until aroused.And sometimes getting to the peak of arousal can be a bumpy climb; for many women, it may take up 45 minutes.
Often, relationship ups and downs cause women to withdraw desire and protect their heart in a way that men don’t or can’t, given their biological drive.Her need to feel emotionally safe before the sexual moment cannot be overstated. Sex, talking, hanging out, working together, managing a home and family as a team, feeling appreciated, celebrating holidays, giving and receiving gifts, and affection may all comprise love for a woman; sex is part of the whole, not the defining factor. I am but sometimes, she may recognize her partner’s need for sex and, despite her own lack of inclination, she may want to meet his need.Romance and seduction are ways that both men and women can co-create a context for sex that helps her separate from the cares of her day and her mental checklist of things to do, and brings her to a place of vulnerability. Making love may flow from the warmth she feels in the relationship, but it’s not necessarily the source of the heat. If there is relational warmth and good will, this offering can be a real gift of love.Expert, fun, not salacious talk to show how a man and a woman can talk more easily about sex. I think it is nice that this women tells us honestly how she feels about sex, but why assume that all women are the same? Even the same woman feels differently about it at different stages of their life. I think it is nice that this women tells us honestly how she feels about sex, but why assume that all women are the same? Even the same woman feels differently about it at different stages of their life. Traditionally, women have used the hint or even the promise of sex, or sex itself, as a manipulation tool. But it is also a double edged sword in that when widely used, the woman herself becomes the commodity. There is a power struggle in marriage over how much closeness and how much autonomy we can arrange and tolerate. We can trade things with our partner or we can give to them out of love because it is our commitment and also the deepest, most generous way to develop a secure, safe harbor in the relationship. Men have been emotionally, physically, and verbally abusing their wives for eons, but wives took it and did not complain, so all of a sudden when women realize that they are vital as well, these women start to complain about the abuse. This is why my generation of men arent going to get married. The notion that women have suffered more than men is such BS! I'm sorry you've suffered from the fear of the danger other men may inflict on you. "absolutely not saying she should do it when she doesn't want to..." But sometimes it's kinda.. We are all different, we all have different needs, wants and desires just like men!Using sex as a bargaining chip obviously defends against intimacy. But evil people come out of the wood work and write articles blamimg wives for marriage problems. Women are proportionally smaller in the population at large and less able to defend themselves physically. So that our country which included his wife and children would be free. "Some women feel love as a motive, and rarely if ever, feel spontaneous subjective desire." Whoa Laurie, you can't do this to women.